I'm giving it another try... but as I can understand... iPhone app sync to iCal.app in a way, while the mac app in one other, ok that's for the lack of tasks on iCal.app, and you need to make events to get reminders on the phone... but... if I make a new todo on the mac, to be able to get the reminder, I have to: sync the mac app, open the iPhone app, sync (this create the calendar entry), open iCal.app and make it synchronize with the server cal... is it just me or this is pure rubbish?